Forgiveness Towards Others
- Adele Creasey
- Apr 8
- 2 min read
Easter celebrations are over, but it’s a good time to reflect on not only the forgiveness of our Lord towards us but also our own forgiveness towards others. Unfortunately, we’ve all been there—suddenly, an unexpected offense strikes, and we may smile outwardly, but deep down, we’re hurt. If we let it simmer, it turns into anger; if we continue down this path, it becomes resentment and bitterness. Unfortunately, this can damage relationships, even if there are no words to express it. We avoid the person, stop spending time with them, and end up miserable.
The scriptures offer plenty of teachings on forgiveness. For example, when Peter asked how often to forgive, Jesus said, "Seventy times seven." He made it clear how important it is to forgive our debtors in the Lord’s Prayer. Also, in Matthew 18:21-35, a parable shows what happens when we don’t forgive. A man asked the king to forgive him for a huge debt, but the man couldn’t forgive someone who owed him a little, which led to his imprisonment and suffering. In addition, Jesus’s forgiveness extended to the soldiers who pierced his hands and feet on the cross serves as a profound example for us. These are merely a few instances that illustrate the significance of forgiveness towards others, a fundamental principle that is not only commendable but also commanded by our faith.
I firmly believe that worship will become more powerful and God’s presence more evident as we take His command to forgive very seriously. Let me ask you a question: Is there any unforgiveness lingering in your heart? Take some time to seek God’s guidance and ask Him to reveal if there is. Don’t rush the process; let the Holy Spirit speak to you about this matter. Another consideration is whether you have knowingly offended anyone. If so, reach out to them and make amends, as scripture instructs. Prioritize this matter immediately. Avoid being the source of unforgiveness in someone else. This courageous act may bring healing to both of you. Lastly, are you like the man in the parable? King Jesus paid a tremendous debt for us, which cost Him immense suffering and death on the cross. Can we take this into perspective and recognize that our brother or sister's debt is insignificant compared to the debt we each, personally, owe the Lord? Forgiving others is also an expression of love for our Lord, who died to forgive.
Let us worship God and be free and overflowing with love for one another, as we remember what Christ has done for us!
